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Mittwoch, 2. Oktober 2019
Skills
anna mestisa, 10:34h
Sometimes your skills develop silently and pour out in a moment you don't excpect. Sometimes it takes years to surface, to get noticed. But what does it matter?
The skill is there and undeniable shinning, even as you are not trying to proof anything.
Sometimes the flower can't stop blooming, because it is part of its cicle, part of its nature, part of its truth.
My truth is pouring out into this world. Like it or not.
16.8.19 5:49
Bild: Herm / pixabay.com
The skill is there and undeniable shinning, even as you are not trying to proof anything.
Sometimes the flower can't stop blooming, because it is part of its cicle, part of its nature, part of its truth.
My truth is pouring out into this world. Like it or not.
16.8.19 5:49
Bild: Herm / pixabay.com
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Samstag, 28. September 2019
Disappointed
anna mestisa, 17:13h
The pain it causes to ask for help, because it feels like admitting I am deeply hurt. It hurts my pride in my family and the pride I feel for each and everyone of us.
My father never disappointed me besides the fact, that he never lived a life for himself, away of my mothers consuming naiv dreams.
I am the first time in my life deeply and openly dissapointed in him. Just admitting this truth cuts like a sharp knife through my bloody flesh. Because it is just true. How I hate this kind of truths, that hurt undeniably as hell.
The dissapointment in my mother is not new. My body remembers her words not adding up to her actions.
Just like my body remembers how to swim, the moment I get pushed in the water. Or how my body remembers to buckle up and look larger than life, if I feel unsave or attacked like my whole damn youth.
But to be dissapointed by my father is like breaking a holy unspoken rule we silently established between a father and his littel girl.
The -only- other time my father dissapointed me befor was as he didn't notice, he left me living with a predator in my supposedly safe space. For that I made my father pay on so many levels. I practically tortured him through my puberty. As if I wanted him to proof his love for me. I directed all my anger to the one person, I expected to protect me and find out and save me.
I never told him. He never saved me.
He never told me. I never saved him.
Now tell me, that isn't tragic.
16.8.19 6:02
Bild: TanteTati / pixabay.com
My father never disappointed me besides the fact, that he never lived a life for himself, away of my mothers consuming naiv dreams.
I am the first time in my life deeply and openly dissapointed in him. Just admitting this truth cuts like a sharp knife through my bloody flesh. Because it is just true. How I hate this kind of truths, that hurt undeniably as hell.
The dissapointment in my mother is not new. My body remembers her words not adding up to her actions.
Just like my body remembers how to swim, the moment I get pushed in the water. Or how my body remembers to buckle up and look larger than life, if I feel unsave or attacked like my whole damn youth.
But to be dissapointed by my father is like breaking a holy unspoken rule we silently established between a father and his littel girl.
The -only- other time my father dissapointed me befor was as he didn't notice, he left me living with a predator in my supposedly safe space. For that I made my father pay on so many levels. I practically tortured him through my puberty. As if I wanted him to proof his love for me. I directed all my anger to the one person, I expected to protect me and find out and save me.
I never told him. He never saved me.
He never told me. I never saved him.
Now tell me, that isn't tragic.
16.8.19 6:02
Bild: TanteTati / pixabay.com
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Mittwoch, 25. September 2019
Anlaufstellen
anna mestisa, 15:50h
AGUS - Angehörige um Suizid e.V.
https://www.agus-selbsthilfe.de
DGS - Deutschen Gesellschaft für Suizidprävention
https://www.suizidprophylaxe.de
Nationales Suizid Präventions Programm
https://www.suizidpraevention-deutschland.de/
Zwölfwöchiges Online-Programm für Hinterbliebene nach Suizid
https://www.hilfe-nach-suizid.de
Bundesverband Verwaiste Eltern und trauernde Geschwister in Deutschland e. V.
https://www.veid.de/
Online-Beratung von Leuchtturm e. V. für Kinder, Jugendliche und junge Erwachsene, die einen Menschen durch Suizid verloren haben
https://leuchtturm-on.de
Online-Suizidberatung und Forum für junge Menschen unter 25
https://www.u25-deutschland.de
Nationale Kontakt und Informationsstelle zur Anregung und Unterstützung von Selbsthilfegruppen
https://www.nakos.de/
KISS - Kontakt- und Informationsstelle für Selbsthilfegruppen (+Ort)
https://sozialministerium.baden-wuerttemberg.de/de/gesundheit-pflege/selbsthilfe-und-beratungsangebote/
Arbeitskreis Leben e.V.
https://www.ak-leben.de
Internationale Notfall Hotlines
https://thedepressionproject.com/emergencyservices
Bild: Radfotosonn / pixabay.com
https://www.agus-selbsthilfe.de
DGS - Deutschen Gesellschaft für Suizidprävention
https://www.suizidprophylaxe.de
Nationales Suizid Präventions Programm
https://www.suizidpraevention-deutschland.de/
Zwölfwöchiges Online-Programm für Hinterbliebene nach Suizid
https://www.hilfe-nach-suizid.de
Bundesverband Verwaiste Eltern und trauernde Geschwister in Deutschland e. V.
https://www.veid.de/
Online-Beratung von Leuchtturm e. V. für Kinder, Jugendliche und junge Erwachsene, die einen Menschen durch Suizid verloren haben
https://leuchtturm-on.de
Online-Suizidberatung und Forum für junge Menschen unter 25
https://www.u25-deutschland.de
Nationale Kontakt und Informationsstelle zur Anregung und Unterstützung von Selbsthilfegruppen
https://www.nakos.de/
KISS - Kontakt- und Informationsstelle für Selbsthilfegruppen (+Ort)
https://sozialministerium.baden-wuerttemberg.de/de/gesundheit-pflege/selbsthilfe-und-beratungsangebote/
Arbeitskreis Leben e.V.
https://www.ak-leben.de
Internationale Notfall Hotlines
https://thedepressionproject.com/emergencyservices
Bild: Radfotosonn / pixabay.com
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